alto-saxのコメント： what about a wedding dress?
if that’s a question directed towards me about the last part, yes i think wedding dresses are a waste of money too. at least with holiday-related dresses, it’s something you might be able to wear again the following year, or for events around the same season. but wedding dresses are stupidly expensive and you wear it for barely a day and then stick it in some box to collect dust. so, to me, a wedding dress is like the biggest waste of money on clothing people regard as “normal”. (i also don’t even really find them all that pretty anyway)
i guess it’s worth saying i have never had a “dream wedding” sort of thing, because not only do i hate large celebrations, but personally i’d much rather spend money on doing something far more memorable
(while i have no “dream wedding”, i have a “dream honeymoon” (it’s going to disneyworld for like a week, staying on-on site at one of the high end hotels, having a few character meals (cinderella’s castle is a fairly high priority one), having dinner at the hibachi portion of the epcot japanese restaurant, going on all my favorite rides with them, taking goofy pictures around the parks (bonus: with characters), etc etc.))
ignore my rambling hahahahaaaa